Bigger than this

I often live my life in a bubble, bumping around into other people’s bubble’s. My world is saturday morning pancakes and the smell of coffee breath tainted with last nights one too many beers and cigarettes from the commuter next to me, little dump trucks and dirt boxes, big city offices and the hum of white collar workers with low morale, toddlers crying because underwear must be worn and there hasn’t been time to practice liking the sound of the vacuum yet, hands in flour water and yeast yielding warm bread and hot garbage stuck to my shoe.

Maybe you are like me in that you float around in your life, mostly seeing things from your bubble, feeling the grind of your job more than the person next to you, your back pain hurts a little more than your neighbors, the rain even makes you a bit more wet than everyone else? And we all bump into one another, holding our breath and hoping the bubbles don’t break. Comforted by illusion of safety and warmth of the blanket of our self deception.

And then, if you are lucky, there are moments when your bubble bumps into someone else’s and you are breathing the same air, having to look at things from the space of their bubble, and a glimpse of real life tip toes in.

Life is bigger than this, we are bigger than this. My bubble had the opportunity to collide with so many at once that my reality exploded in an instant. Nothing makes this reality more clear than moments of birth and the process of death.

The danger is, that the moment trails away, the grief lessens it grip, the joy of birth turns into sleepless nights and spit up and the bubble slowly starts to reform. I am a better person, better off than I have been before for this moment that has lasted longer than the others. Suffering is universal, and it is experienced in degrees, if we can see suffering as a collective ailment, share in the pain, we can share in the glory, in the breath of life, it gets a little easier. There is so much more space and air in a bigger bubble, more room for freedom and happiness and for sharing in the unavoidable pain of life.

It takes practice, you may not be ready to burst your bubble completely, maybe start with joining one or two other bubbles, share in their pain, see life from their hearts, and slowly expand. The key is to be aware as often as possible as to where you are in relation to the rest of us – and make a choice, don’t float in your bubble obliviously.

Stolen with love from Eddie Vedder’s “Hard Sun” and words changed for the purposes of my intentions:

When I walk beside them
I am a better person
When I look to leave them
I always stagger
Once I built an ivory tower
so i could worship from above
when I climb back down to be set free
they took me in again

there’s a big
a big hard sun
beating on the the big people
in a big hard world

There’s a big hard love
that is bigger than us
in this big love world

Go on, go do it.

Comments

  1. Stephanie says:

    Lovely as usual, and a nice reminder to start another hectic day.
    However, not that I am one to have a problem with anyone crediting some beautiful poetry to Eddie V. —- he didn’t write that song, just covered it with a few tiny alterations to the lyrics.
    Either way, I appreciate your waking me up a little more today. Just what I needed. πŸ™‚

    • Thanks Steff, happy you enjoyed it and that you caught the vedder reference, do you know who originally wrote that song? Hope your hectic day involved some popped bubbles πŸ™‚

  2. jodie fogler says:

    read this one at the perfect moment – thank you for shifting my day πŸ™‚ looking forward to the workshop on sunday!

  3. Lovely πŸ™‚

Share your thoughts

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

Promiscuous Intelligence

Andrew Fitzgerald's blog

Blog - Capes Coaching

Uncovering the idiocyncracies of life and living each moment, one at a time

The Daily Post

The Art and Craft of Blogging

allaboutmanners

Just another WordPress.com site

Bucket List Publications

Indulge- Travel, Adventure, & New Experiences

π’₯π’Άπ“‚π‘’π“ˆ π’₯ 𝒩𝑒𝑒𝒹

π’«π“‡π‘œπ’»π‘’π“ˆπ“ˆπ’Ύπ‘œπ“ƒπ’Άπ“ π’’π‘œπ“π’»π‘’π“‡ & 𝑀𝒾𝓃𝒹 π’žπ‘œπ’Άπ’Έπ’½

MindfulVision

My tribute to life with all its curiosities and miracles

Playing Your Hand Right

Showing America how to Live

Gotta Find a Home

Conversations with Street People

floreakeats

Food Writing. Nonsense. Home of The Food A--hole's Dilemma and other delicacies

cancer killing recipe

Just another WordPress.com site

A Window Of Wisdom

Whispers from spirit heard with your heart

Eleventh Stack

A books, movies, and more blog from the staff at the Carnegie Library of Pittsburgh - Main.

smilecalm

Life through mindful media

%d bloggers like this: